Peace of Mind

Having 'Peace of Mind' is not a strenuous job,

it is an effortless process so keep your mind cool and have a great life ahead.

"What is wrong with human of becoming angry?"

1)   Stay away from Anger. It hurts. Only You!

2)   If you are right then there is no need to get angry,

3)   And if you are wrong then you don't have any right to get angry.

4)   Patience with family is love,

5)   Patience with others is respect.

6)   Patience with self is confidence and Patience with GOD is faith.

7)   Never Think Hard about the PAST, It brings Tears...

8)   Don't think more about the FUTURE, It brings Fear...

9)   Live this Moment with a Smile, It brings Cheer.

10)  Every test in our life makes us bitter or better,

11)  Every problem comes to make us or break us,

12)  The choice is ours whether we become victims or victorious.

13)  Beautiful things are not always good but good things are always beautiful

14)  Happiness keeps You Sweet. But being sweet brings happiness.
15)  Do you know why God created gaps between fingers? So that someone who is special to you comes and fills those gaps by holding your hand forever. 

Never leave Your close ones, if you find few faults in them.

Just close Your eyes 'n Remember the best time You spent together,

because Affection is More Important than Perfection.

Neither you can hug yourself, nor you can cry on your own shoulder.

Life is all about living for one another, so live with those who love you the most.

Relations cannot be Understood by the Language of Money.

Because some Investments Never Give Profit but They Make us rich.

"Family n Friends are such Investments"

There is no Association / Good Friend circle better than your family.

Beautiful explanation by Swami Vivekananda:

Explaining the meaning of ‘Association’. He said: “The rain drop from the sky,

if it is caught in hands is pure enough for drinking.

If it falls in gutter, it’s value drops so much that it can’t be used for washing the feet.

If it falls on hot surface, it perishes.

If it falls on lotus leaf, it shines like a pearl

and finally, if it falls on oyster, it becomes a pearl.

The drop is same, but it’s existence & worth depends on with whom it associates.”

Coffee never knew that it would taste so nice and sweet, before it met milk and sugar.

We are good as individuals but become better when we meet and blend with the right people.

Stay Connected. "The world is full of nice people... If you can't find one... Be the one.!!"

How can you be a " Good Human" or " Happy Soul"?

Definition provided by Buddhist Lamas...
A Happy Soul is one who…
1)  stops trying to change others, but instead focus on changing self.
2)  accepts people for who they are.
3)  understands that everyone is right in one's own perspective.
4)  learns to "let go".
5)  able to drop expectations from every relationship and gives for the sake of giving.
6)  understands that whatever we do, we do it for our own peace.
7)  stops proving to the world, how intelligent one is.
8)  does not seek approval from others.
9)  stops comparing with others.
10)  peace with oneself.
11)  able to differentiate between "need" and "want" and is able to let go of one's wants.
12)  stops attaching "happiness" to material things.

SOME PURIFICATION'S:

1)   Body gets purified... by WATER & EXERCISE.

2)   Breathe gets purified... by YOGA - PRANAYAM.

3)   Mind gets purified... by MEDITATION.

4)   Intellect gets purified... by KNOWLEDGE.

5)   Memory gets purified... by REMEMBER & THINK.

6)   Ego gets purified... by SERVICE.

7)   Self gets purified... by SILENCE .

8)   Food gets purified... by POSITIVE THOUGHTS. (Care while cooking & eating).

9)   Wealth gets purified... by GIVING/DONATING.

10) Feelings gets purified... by LOVE.

So Spread Goodness all around. Think, Act, Speak ..... POSITIVE.

Never disturbed.

You will find great relief, if you are disturbed.

Once Buddha was traveling with a few of his followers. While they were passing a lake, Buddha told one of his disciples, "I am thirsty. Do get me some water from the lake there."

The disciple walked up to the lake. At that moment, a bullock cart started crossing through the lake.
As a result, the water became very muddy and turbid. The disciple thought, "How can I give this muddy water to Buddha to drink?"

So he came back and told Buddha, "The water in there is very muddy. I don't think it is fit to drink."After about half an hour, again Buddha asked the same disciple to go back to the lake. 

The disciple went back, and found that the water was still muddy. He returned and informed Buddha about the same.After sometime, again Buddha asked the same disciple to go back.

This time, the disciple found the mud had settled down, and the water was clean and clear.

So he collected some water in a pot and brought it to Buddha. 

Buddha looked at the water, and then he looked up at the disciple and said, "See what you did to make the water clean. You let it be, and the mud settled down on its own, and you have clear water."

Your mind is like that too! 
When it is disturbed, just let it be. Give it a little time. It will settle down on its own.

You don't have to put in any effort to calm it down. It will happen. It is effortless."