26 Jun 2016

Never put an Advice !!



Never put an Advice!!
It may loose your values.
Many times we like to put an advice to anyone by judging at their situation. 

1. Sometimes not liking something wrong - to change we try to advice but we forget they don't listen to us. Only whom they know very well, respects or like. So never judge and change something.
If you don't like a Rule…Just Follow it…Reach on the Top…And Change the Rule. -Adolf Hitler.

2. Sometimes thinking self smart - we put an advice more (start explain ). but here Just follow the quote..
Never explain yourself to anyoneBecause the person who likes you doesn't need it and the person who dislikes you won't believe it. ~  Dave Hedges 

It's better to leave them without any advice. They will understand by their own way. But never try to Explain right or wrong of something or wait till someone ask you to share view. 

If you put an advice without permission then you will be categorize as fake as per bellow thought..
when you ask someone an advice then thousands will come but when you ask thousands for a help nobody comes,- Unknown

The demerit of advice is - 
it make clarity between two person's quality.
it simply makes distinction - An adviser is at higher and listener is at lower. We know human nature- he/she never want defeat. So nobody wants to find own-self at lower part. Sometimes it hurts them inside, human mind never accepts own-self as low standard. So sometimes listener too replies as he/she also knows everything. Therefore advice creates reply then reply turns to argument then turns to fight.

Don't put advice unnecessary. An advice is in far distance. only Small Explanation and excuse are also not acceptable.
So Quit free advice.

The less you respond to rude, critical, argumentative people...the more peaceful your life will become.― Mandy Hale


Always be a good listener. A good listener can be a good speaker, a good guider and a good peacemaker.

13 May 2016

Your silly mistake can add poison in life !!


Your Silly mistake can add poison in life !!

Question @ how ?
Answer @ after little fight or argument with someone.
So we always talk - he/she is wrong.

Question @ have ever think - what does that person think about you ?
Answer @ Same - he/she is wrong.

Question @ Actually who is right ??
Answer- Nobody.

Fact is we people are good judge of others and a good lawyer of self. We never accept our mistakes.

Only we accept/like what is meant for us. After that we search for solution or peace. We people never look for peace and discipline.

Solutions through few thoughts and Quotes :-

  1. Be kind - Being kind is much more important than being right, sometimes what a person needs, isn't a brilliant mind that speaks but a patient heart that listens-  - Chikku George Thomas.
  2. A meaningful silence is better than a meaningless words. - Unknown
  3. Kindness creates coolness, patience and  smile.
  4. Forget and forgive, Not Revenge and Regret- Remember The first to APOLOGIZE is the bravest, the first to FORGIVE is the Strongest and the first to FORGET is the Happiest.  - Unknown.
  5. No one in this world is pure and perfect. if you hate/avoid people for their mistakes, you will always be alone. So Judge Less and Love More. - Unknown.
  6. If you Judge someone it may create over smartness which can lead to put voice high.
  7. Let us always meet each other with smile, for the smile is the beginning of love." - Mother Teresa.
  8. Smile and Silence are two powerful tools. Smile is the way to solve many problems and Silence is the way to avoid may problems. - Unknown.
So find yourself always in peace and be the part of social discipline.

11 Jun 2015

Happy life


“The real education is your attitude & behaviour with others.
It defines your entire personality. No matter how qualified you are!!” - Unknown

 We were reminded this above thought till study life by our parents & guardians, even when we became parent we again remind self and also to our children the same. If this is applicable whole life then what is the misunderstanding?? why human nature have gone change ?? why there is no happiness in people ??

Ohh, money income - "इंसान भी कितना अनोखा जीव है.
पहले भगवान के आगे हाथ जोड़ कर धन - संपत्ति मांगता है !
फिर गर्व से उसी भगवान को दान देकर, नीचे अपना नाम लिखा कर अपनी श्रेष्ठता सिद्ध करता है !
इंसान पहले पैसा पाने के लिए अपना स्वास्थ्य खो देता है। फिर स्वास्थ्य को पाने के लिए पैसा और समय खो देता है.

With money you can buy
a house but not a home;
a clock but not time;
clothes but not comfort;
bed but not sleep;
a book but not knowledge;
a position but not respect;
blood but not life;
sex but not love.

A Small Truth to Make Our Life 100% Successful
"If A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z Is Equal to 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 then
H+A+R+D+W+O+R+K = 8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11 = 98%
K+N+O+W+L+E+D+G+E = 11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5 = 96%
L+O+V+E=12+15+22+5=54%
L+U+C+K = 12+21+3+11 = 47%
None of them makes 100%
Then what makes 100%
Is It Money? ..... No!!!!!
Leadership? ...... NO!!!!
Every Problem Has A Solution, Only If We Perhaps Change Our "ATTITUDE".
Yes, it is our ATTITUDE towards life and work that makes our LIFE 100% Successful.
A+T+T+I+T+U+D+E = 1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 = 100%" - Unknown

Remember, happiness starts with you. Not with your relationship, or your friends, or your job. But with you! - Unknown

Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny. - M k Gandhi

“A body will shine if character is fine. " - Sathya Sai
“The world is full of nice people. If you can't find one, be one.” - Unknown
"Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself." - Leo Tolstoy
"A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. – Lao Tzu
“Little drops of water make mighty Ocean.” - Unknown
"Let's always meet each other with smile, for the smile is the beginning of love ." - Mother Teresa

''Alone I can 'Say' but together we can 'talk'.
'Alone I can 'Enjoy' but together we can 'Celebrate'.
'Alone I can 'Smile' but together we can 'Laugh'.
That's the BEAUTY of Human Relations.
We are nothing without each other, Stay Connected!
Let's make a beautiful world.

29 May 2015

Our fitness routine towards destiny

Who says we don't exercise
Our Fitness routine…………..

We 'Jump' - to conclusions...
We 'Throw' - our weight around...
We 'Twist' - the truth...
We 'Stretch' - the lies...
We 'Bend' - the rules...
We 'Push' - our luck...
We 'Lift' - our egos...
We 'Run' - from tough situations...
We are absolutely fit...!!!
.......but still, We’re fat because.....
We eat our words...Very often!


2 May 2015

Mahabharat


Mahabharat -
इस रण का मैं खुद ही कृष्ण और खुद ही अर्जुन हूँ ,

रोज़ अपना सारथी बनकर जीवन की महाभारत लड़ता हूँ...



The real Mahabharat War is inside Human each day each moment then after that it depends on us how we behave or show reaction on others action. So who have understood this, he has made his life great... who don't understand, probably face Great War/Dark/ Illusion which we say mahabharat and suffers lot. Everything described in the Mahabharat- the holy epic.

Who have understood this are saying - 
I am also saying-
इस रण का मैं खुद ही कृष्ण और खुद ही अर्जुन हूँ ,
रोज़ अपना सारथी बनकर जीवन की महाभारत लड़ता हूँ...